Time is free, but its priceless. Time consists of moments and these moments comprises our life. With the time moves our life. There comes ups and downs in everyone’s life and the very fact is these ups and downs are counter balanced. If there lies a crest then there must be a trough. Though the period of these crest and trough may be different but sooner or later they are balanced.

The very tendency of human nature is we never thank God when we reside in the crest, but when it comes to trough, we curse him. Everything happens for a reason. God is the best director who at the same time directs so many movies but not a single movie got flopped. There comes a point in everyone’s life, when  he looses all the hope in life, he starts cursing God, his life and foremost himself. Without realizing the fact that that is the only point which can change his life. If that point doesn’t come the things shall happen in the way they were happening. Monotonicity is the worst thing in the world. Try to fight a battle even if you are not sure whether you win. Try to sit in an exam, even if you are not sure, you’ll pass and try to love even if you know you lost. Be honest and forget the consequences. Do your best and leave the rest. Try to do everything in your life, so that when you die, you shall not feel sorry for anything that you wanted to do but you couldn’t. Your life is like a movie make it worth watching.

Everything happens for a reason. Sometimes it took some time to understand that reason. At time reason may not satisfy us but they are for our betterment. Be honest in your life and believe that nothing wrong can happen. The thing might not take place in the way we want but later we realize there was a reason for that. If there comes a point in your life, when you loose all the things that you have achieved so far, then accept it as God’s desire and carry on. Sometimes, the things that we can’t change, ends up changing us and those changes really change our life. What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger. Thank God for making you stronger and adding flavour in your life.

Be a dreamer in life but ready to accept the situation when dreams shattered in front of you. Love someone in your life but be ready to accept the fact if she doesn’t love you. Have faith in god and yourself. A good intention and good desire can never get wrong. In fact when you are honest and your intentions are good, whole universe conspires to let your dreams achieved. Be optimistic in life and enjoy all its colour.

1. The price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it.
2. Say what you want to say when you have the feeling and the chance. My greatest regrets are the things I did not do, the opportunities missed and the things unsaid.
3. Remember that everyone you meet is afraid of something, loves something, and has lost something.
4. It is not what we take up, but what we give up, that makes us rich.
5. Many of the things you can count, don’t count. Many of the things you can’t count, really count.
6. To love when it can be lost, To go on when the progress seems futile, To believe with every fibre in your body, To live, to hope and to never give in.
7. Alexander’s beautiful last words, Bury my body,dont build any monument, keep my hand outside the grave so that everyone knows the one who won the world had nothing in hand when died.
8. There are two things in the world that are more painful then death : When your Lover loves you but he/she doesn’t tell it to you and when your lover doesn’t love you and you feel it.
9. There shall always be a true love and unforgettable heartbreak in everylife.
10. “Your time is limited, don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living the result of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinion drown your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition, they somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” – Steve Jobs
11. When you don’t get what you want, you suffer. If you get it, you suffer too since you can’t hold on to it forever.
12. Never let your memories be greater than your dreams.
13. If my mind can conceive it and my heart can believe it, why can’t I achieve it.
14. Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away.
15. Its better to love and lost than not to love at all.

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               “Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”

Questions are never difficult, what makes them difficult are their answers, and sometimes the questions which seem to be easiest are in fact the toughest. It was some six years back I got an opportunity to read Nehru’s Discovery of India. It was neither by choice nor by chance but it was just a part of my course curriculum, I had to study it. There was a chapter in the book named Life’s philosophy. I toiled with best of my health and spirit to get the essence of it. But I was not mature enough to digest it. Though there was not a single difficult word in the chapter nor the way it was written considered bad, in fact good writing skills was the only worth quality of Nehru. The fact is topic itself was difficult and philosophical one.

How can we define Life..? In fact we can’t define anything. When we try to define something we are just putting our opinion about that, that is bounded by its traits and characteristics. Till yet I never got a satisfactory answer of the question who are you..?? There are many thousands of people who share the same name along with same Father’s name. Everyday millions of people born at the same timestamp, so what makes us unique to define ourselves..? Anyhow being human we learn the art of confusing very soon if we failed to learn the art of convincing. But still there are some questions which fascinates me and they include What is Life..? What is the sole purpose of our life..? and what is the irony of our Life..?

Well when we entered this world we are loved by everyone, when we left this world we are admired by everyone but in between these two, the amount of love and admiration we got defines our life. Everyone dies but not everyone truly lives and the irony of our life is it goes on. When a child is born, his world is limited to his parent. According to him their exist only two persons in this world and that are his parents, because they are the only one whom he saw, but as he grows up he meet new faces and create his own life. His life in no way then dependant on his parents even when they left him he lived in the same way and so the life goes on.

The irony of our life lies in the fact throughout our life we desire to let the things happen in the way we want them to happen. We have certain expectations from our life and when these expectations remain unfulfilled, we lost the essence of life. Life is not only a bed of roses but also a path of thorns. Those who accept this fact truly smell the fragrance of life.

We have to realize the fact that the life we are living actually comprises of moments and these moments are unique, once they passed away they shall never be back. Sometimes we wanted to get back in life to say sorry to few persons whom we lost because we didn’t apologize at the right time. Sometimes we wanted to get back in life to confess our love for person whom we deeply loved, but never expressed because we didn’t have courage, without realizing that the two most painful thing in our life is when our lover loves us and he/she didn’t tell it to us and the other one is when he/she didn’t love us and we fell it. Life is a one time opportunity which must be spent precisely and carefully. When we were born we were the sole owner of our life but as we grow up we realized that we are someone’s brother, we are someone’s son, we are someone’s friend and lastly but significantly we are someone’s heart. So our life is not only ours and hence we must be conscious to build best out of it.
The irony of life lies in the fact that there is always a true love and unforgettable heartbreak in every life, but the more ironical is the way we break after such heartbreaks. We never want anything wrong in our life. We want the persons whom we love to be with us throughout their lives and if by chance they left us we walked away from our life. How can and why should we waste our life for someone who doesn’t worth it.

The irony or our life lies in the fact that dreams always fascinates us, we dream to be someone else without realizing that we are unique and by doing so we ourselves are killing that unique identity. We look at those who are above us but we forget that their exists a world below us. We laughed at someone if he’s not fair looking without realizing the fact he is not at all responsible for his looks. We wanted to be single when we are committed and we wanted to be committed when we are single.

We can create our life in the way we want. In fact we are solely responsible for everything that exists and happens in our life, so we should never regret about anything because if its good, its wonderful and if not then an experience. We have to realize the fact that everyone can make a living but not everyone can make a life..