Now a days, The most common thing that we human beings come across is EXCUSES. Excuses for flunking a class, Excuses for failing in exam and excuses for missing deadline in office. The facet becomes worst when we start giving excuses to ourselves. Excuses for taking drugs, Excuses for breaking a relationship and an excuse for every nefarious act. The very fact is the day we start giving excuses to ourselves we are not in our mere control. A strong desire and indepth commitment never needs an excuse and every immoral act in this world starts with an excuse.

Lets take an example of Drinking When someone starts Drinking the First excuse he gives is “Do try everything in Life” and when this Trying becomes repeatable the excuse comes is “Drinking is bad only, if you are addicted to it, occasional drinking is never bad”. Later on when the frequency of these occasions increases and their time period decreases and one finds himself addicted to it, the next excuse is “Drinking is never bad until and unless after drinking you do something that is REALLY BAD” and when he starts doing something REALLY BAD the excuse is he can’t do anything because the things are now, not in his hand. So we found that how a simple excuse can change the things.

Giving excuse is never difficult. We can completely conclude a scenario or situation in simply few sentences or words. But at the same time, a voice from our inner soul, must question ourselves, our ability but later on when the frequency of these excuses increases we start overhearing that feeble voice.

When we failed in an exam, we have a wonderful universal excuse that Question Paper was tough, But there always exist a person who have performed well in that exam, If he can that why can’t we. We give excuse to ourselves when we break up with our near and dear ones saying that they are not honest and we are wrong in judging them. But how one person who once sounded perfectly perfect can turn into malevolent. They may for sometime behave undesirably but that doesn’t mean they have changed. What actually has changed is our opinion towards them and inspite of accepting it we gave ourselves lame excuses.

Life can be far better and perfect, if we stop giving ourselves excuses. Excuses are nothing but our weaknesses. If we are passionate about doing something then we never give any excuse. Moreover, if anyhow we have made mistake then its better to accept it than to make an excuse. Excuses lead to nowhere.

Life never promised you anything..
Nor did God promise..
But People did..
Some said they will never leave you.. LIE..
Some said they will love you till death.. LIE..
Some said you are the most precious one.. LIE..
Life is made of such sweet LIES..

In the end all that matters is.. how you faced the time when you finaly realised those were just LIES and how truthful you were..

We may ask “Wouldn’t life be much better if these lies were never told ?”

But the true fact, which is yet HARDER is, when you realised that, the times you lived on those big LIES were the best times of your LIFE..

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Got it as forward but found it worth sharing.

There comes a point in everyone’s life, when he ‘THINKS’ he has lost ‘EVERYTHING’. He has to move on forgetting the things, the persons who in actual matters a lot. To say Good-Bye to things when they are actually needed, and the worst part comes when you don’t have any reason why all that happened. Why a sudden cyclone comes when everything is going fine and it destroyed all. As it seems you are a victim of broken ship, who has been fighting with waves and trying every bit to find a shore.
You realised that there can’t be a worst phase of your life, when people see only worst in you. Things of your that are once appreciated are been considered bad and you don’t have any way, any method to get out of it.
But whatever the situation in life is, the good thing about life is it always gives you an option. An option to live life as life or to keep yourself in the dogma of past. you are the reason of your every problem and you are the solution of your every problem. Just accept every situation that you considered as problem. Life don’t have any Pause button, Time waits for none. Believe Life is not only a beauty to admire, but also a duty to complete, a song to sing and a tragedy to confront. If life takes you to that point, there must be a reason for it. Just wait for that reason. If you know you are right stand for it don’t care even if you are standing alone and when you are wrong don’t hesitate to accept it. In life if you can’t forget just forgive and if you can’t forgive just forget. Take Life in the way God has given, enjoy its every color, believe your instincts. Life is too precious don’t waste it. Life is life fight for it.